Are You an Internet Addict?

June 14, 2008 by voj  
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Sambil menunggu indomie selesai direbus, saya ngecheck email dan disalah satu email yang saya terima adalah sebuah potongan artikel yang dikirimkan oleh seorang teman (pak Patahan) yang tinggal di Haven Plaza, bilangan Alphabet City, Manhattan, New York City. Potongan artikel tersebut sangat menarik karena jadi membuat saya bertanya2 apakah saya seorang pecandu internet? Kalau ditanyakan secara pribadi sih saya akan mengakui bahwa saya seorang internet junkies….hehehe. Tapi karena penasaran juga apa yang dibahas dalam artikel tersebut, maka saya klik link yang diberikan dan muncullah artikel yang ditulis oleh seorang kolumnis bernama Gina Hughes (The Tech Diva) di Yahoo!Tech. Untuk selanjutnya saya copy-paste kan artikel tersebut dibawah ini dan silahkan tentukan sendiri apakah anda seorang internet junkies atau bukan…:-)

Are You an Internet Addict?

I was reading through an AFP report on Yahoo! News that says Serbia is now treating people with Internet addictions. This counseling center considers anyone who is not interested in daily activities with family and friends as a potential Internet addict and looks for other signs such as spending prolonged hours online, turning to virtual friends, and isolation. I’m not sure exactly how they treat Internet addiction, but they say treatment usually lasts one year.

After reading this, I headed over to Net Addiction and took an Internet Addiction Test (IAT) that told me my Internet usage is causing occasional problems in my life. I won’t take that test too seriously because my occupation requires me to be online a lot of the time. However, I will keep that in mind next time I choose surfing the web over, er, household chores. Can you blame me?

Internet addiction can be harmful for those who delve into the darker side of the web, such as online gambling, cybersex, online affairs, and online gaming. But how do you know when you or someone you love is addicted to the Internet? When is it time to pull the plug and seek treatment?

Here’s a list of common symptoms to watch out for:

1. Lying about how much time is spent online.
2. General decrease of physical activity and social life.
3. Neglecting obligations at home, work, or school to spend time online.
4. Spending too much money on computer equipment or Internet activities.
5. Feeling a constant desire to be online when they’re away from the computer.
6. Going online to escape real world problems.
7. Disregarding the emotional or physical consequences
of being in front of a computer all day.
8. Denial of the problem.

There is much debate about the reality of Internet addiction. The bottom line is that anything can be harmful when abused. If you find yourself spending more time online than with real people, then plan for some quality time with the family or friends every other day. Find anactivity the whole family enjoys and make a date with them.

I personally disconnect completely every weekend and get out of the house so I’m not tempted to check email. I also have movie nights and “Lost” nights during the week, which are a great excuse to turn off the computer. Different things work for different people, so just find something you enjoy and don’t hesitate to shut the computer off.

What do you do to escape cyberspace?

Regards,

Jimi Gemblung

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5 Comments on "Are You an Internet Addict?"

  1. Orion on Sat, 14th Jun 2008 9:11 PM 

    Sometimes it can’t be helped. Internet can be a place to escape and be someone you’re not. In this world where people focus on weakness instead of strength, Internet is like our sanctuary. I speak on behalf of me and most probably other people like me. In that sense, yeah, probably I’m too… an addict.

  2. bungabunga on Mon, 16th Jun 2008 10:50 AM 

    hihihihihi internet addict menyeramkan tapi memang ada sebagian orang yang seperti itu,,,
    bahkan ada orang yang menjalin hubungan via internet dan blm pernah bertatap muka [astaga,,]
    yah bebas si sukasuka orang lah mo ngapain hehehhehehe,,,
    tapi dari tulisan diatas berarti tambah lagi pe er buwat orang psikologi atau sosiolog ni,,,
    mengenai sindrom internet yang bisa membuat orang memiliki dunia sendiri tanpa melihat dunia nyata,,,
    tapi tulisan ini bagus bang jimjim,,,,beruntung bisa baca jadi aku bisa menyeimbangkan antara dunia maya dan dunia nyata hahahhahhahahha,,,

  3. cornelia on Mon, 16th Jun 2008 2:58 PM 

    hihihi ati2 buntil…

    I am internet addict…. i cant live without detik.com and kompas.com
    hahahahhahahaha

  4. chloe on Wed, 18th Jun 2008 12:58 PM 

    Ooowww……ehm…well…yeah…me? kinda, actually.
    Heheh…..almost deny it. Hahaha. I really tried NOT to turn my computer on in a day….just feels something’s missing!
    Not that I gamble or do other bad cyber stuffs, but I just could not live without it. If there’s a problem in internet connection, I could go up set. I bet that happens to all of our friends nowadays.
    Seems like if there’s no activities using computer, your life’s empty? Hahaha….
    TV now could not replace it.

    But it’s true though….not healthy: barely go out…and stay away from my PC.
    Let’s start changing this bad habit!

  5. Remy on Wed, 18th Jun 2008 9:37 PM 

    Interesting…am I an Internet addict? Hell yea…how could I live without it? How could YOU live without it? We live in a digital world where time has become more valuable. But am I an Internet freak? NO. Hehehehe….

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